Being BiSexual

I troll around the Japanese Yahoo chatrooms looking for rooms to chat in. I've found a few that I've become a regular in. In one of the rooms, the owner is a married female bisexual. She openly talks about her sex life and we the listeners are free to ask her questions (she uses the mic, the rest of us have to type).
She been married for a few years now. She doesn't have or want to have kids. She has normal sex with her husband and have tried others like anal. She blows her husband and swallows. But during her marriage, she found a female through the internet. They've met in person and somehow the the other female asked her to be her 'partner'. This woman I chat with is married and true to her husband, asked his permission first before going 'steady'. The husband allows her wife to meet her lesbian partner once in a few months in another city. (long distance lesbian relationship). They use their finger, tounges and vibrators but neither has orgasmed.

The husband and the les haven't met yet but seen each other by pictures. Husband doesn't seem to mind that his wife is screwing another lady and the lesbian seems to be a bit jealous of sharing (the husband seems to be the "steady as a rock" type of person). Husband wants to have a 3some but the other lady doesn't want to be intimate with someone she not interested in.


What would you do if your wife/husband was bisexual and wanted a relationship
someone of the same sex while married?